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What are you avoiding?


Introduction

Have you ever put tremendous effort into achieving a goal, only to be constantly interrupted by unexpected obstacles? No matter how hard you try, it seems like you can never quite reach the outcome you desire. In this blog post, I want to shed light on a factor causing these interruptions and offer a solution to overcome them. So, let's dive in!

Unveiling the Hidden Motivation

Behind every goal we set, there is often a deeper motivation - a commitment to avoiding a

certain consequence. Consider this: while you may have a clear vision of what you want to

achieve and the benefits it would bring, there may also be an underlying fear of what might

happen if you fail to reach that goal. For instance, some people strive to make more money or secure a better job to avoid not having enough money or even the

fear of homelessness.

The Subconscious Roadblock

Interestingly, while your conscious attention is focused on your goal and the

actions needed to achieve it, your subconscious mind may still be preoccupied with the

potential adverse outcomes. This subconscious worry consumes your mental bandwidth,

limiting your ability to fully dedicate your time and creative energy to the task at hand.

Consequently, this resistance and concern contribute to the repeated interruptions and

obstacles that hinder your progress.

Breaking Free

So, what can you do to break free from this cycle? It starts with acknowledging and

addressing the subconscious fears holding you back. Begin by writing down your

goals, as you may have already done. But then, take a moment to reflect on what might

happen if you don't achieve them. Your mind will likely conjure up potential negative

scenarios. However, it's crucial to recognize that over ninety percent of what we worry about

never happens. That worst-case outcome is unlikely to materialize. By acknowledging this fact and letting go of those fears, you can free up your mental bandwidth

and direct your attention towards creating what you truly desire.

The Real Purpose of Goals

It's essential to shift your perspective on goal-setting. Instead of viewing goals as a means to

protect yourself or prevent negative outcomes, and consider them as vehicles for expressing

your true self and maximizing your impact on the world. By releasing the grip of fear and

embracing your authentic self, you unleash your creative potential to accomplish what you

genuinely desire.

Take the Next Step

If you're intrigued by the insights shared in this blog post and want to delve deeper into unravelling the obstacles that hinder your progress, I invite you to book a session with me. You can access my calendar and schedule a complimentary conversation by clicking the link below. This session will allow you to explore your goals, address hidden fears, and potentially discover life-changing breakthroughs. Who knows? Working with me as your coach could be the next step towards achieving your aspirations.

Conclusion

In conclusion, the key to overcoming repeated interruptions and reaching your goals lies in

uncovering and addressing the hidden fears that hold you back. By freeing up your mental

bandwidth and embracing your true self, you can unleash your creative energy and

accomplish what you genuinely desire. Ignorance may be innocent, but little

information can make you dangerous. Take the first step towards a transformative journey

today.


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